Tuesday, July 14, 2020
My Herbs of 2020
Sunday, July 12, 2020
Happy Thoughts Journal
Loving my journals |
Create Your Own Ideas notebook |
... and in His wings, you will find refuge. |
Journal entry about Charity event hosted by my college TR Class |
Journal entry about my first and last month of college. |
Monday, June 29, 2020
Why Do We Celebrate?
I want to wish everyone in Canada and the USA
a very happy and safe holiday celebration this week!
I am going to the lake for two days of relaxing and then for Canada Day, this Wednesday, I will be at work from noon to 8 pm. We are having a little Canada Day party in the afternoon. Providing programs and celebrations at a personal care home is extremely challenging right now during this time of quarantine, social distancing, and so many other changes and worries. We are trying to gather people in very small groups, and then we try and position people with some distance between them.
Previously our Canada Day Parties at the personal care home have been huge outdoor events for residents and families complete with a hired musician, food, and decorations and lots of FUN. We always had a huge turnout. This year - What to do? We are setting up the patio and decorating in Red and White, but we are handling it like a mini “come and go” open house style event for the residents so that we only have a few people gathered at a time. It is a significant change and challenges our creativity.
This year our usual ways of celebrating have been so overwhelmingly disrupted. We all want our social contacts to return to what it was before the pandemic, but in the meantime, we still want to share our lives with each other in some way.
What I am impressed with is how resilient people have been. We are, indeed, finding new ways to celebrate and mark special events. My niece’s husband secretly contacted her Facebook friends and arranged for everyone to drive past and honk. He even surprised her by decorated their front yard. She was thrilled with this new version of a birthday celebration. I was pleased to discover that I could attend live-streamed service from my local church this past Easter from my own home.
We are communicating with others and having events on Skype, Zoom or Facetime. People from all over the world are participating in activities in new ways. Some times these changes have been very positive.
I love celebrations!
I even love those days when unusual celebrations occur and sometimes I try and incorporate them into my home life and into my work life at the personal care home. Just to give one random example- Did you know that today, June 29th, is the International Day of the Tropics, which is sponsored by the United Nations? It is kind of the perfect day to buy a tropical plant, have a sweet beachy drink. Click to learn a bit about the fascinating biodiversity of the tropics. Why do we set up these differnt kinds of events and what is the point of it?
What do we celebrate?
We celebrate or commemorate the important markers of our lives. We celebrate our birthdays and commemorate the passing of loved ones. We remember anniversaries. There are special feelings of pride and acknowledgment of your capibilites on the day you get your driver’s licence on the day you graduate from school or when you get that longed-for job or be a winner in that major sports competition.
We celebrate the community acknowledgment of Valentine’s Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s Eve, Mother’s Day, Fathers Day and many other days with big events or family gatherings. We sometimes do a lot of consumer purchasing to get the right décor, clothing and treats and even cards to share.
Each culture has its unique occasions and ways that they celebrate these days. It might be hoisting a beer stein for Oktoberfest, or it might be watching a dragon dance for Chinese New Year. These celebrations reflect the history, culture and beliefs and geography of a place and a people. It is a way that a group defines itself and binds itself together as a group. It is a way to remember the past traditions of their people and to teach its youth to be proud of their heritage and to continue it into the future.
These special days and moments are centred around universal human experiences. We all experience loss, sadness, fear, accomplishment, and we all look for love, peace, joy, and success. When we act to notice and mark these events and moments, we find meaning in what is happening to us. The sorrowful and the joyful can be shared and let us gain validation for what has happened and our feelings about it. As a group, we can offer each other solace in difficult times, and we can provide practical support too. We can even create a force for change by acknowledging the importance of what has happened.
Back to why do we celebrate?
We have fun and excitement, and we make special memories
Have a wonderful Canada Day and a fantastic Fourth of July.
Make some great memories!
Sunday, June 14, 2020
Do you Drink Enough Fluids? Make it Fun!
- Try filling a water pitcher in the fridge with the water you want to drink for the day and then you don't need to measure every cup
- Get yourself a nice water bottle to carry around with you. They are easy to pack and avoid spills.
- Use nice glasses or cups that make you happy. Dig out a favourite cup that is cute or perhaps has a favourite saying on it. How about a vintage teacup and saucer. I like drinking water out of an old cut glass piece. My friend likes using a canning jar.
- Icecubes can make a drink cooler and lovely to drink on a hot day. The temperature of a beverage can affect tastes too.
- Icecube trays come in fancy shapes that add to the fun. Your ice cubes can be frozen juice cubes that will flavour your water and add a touch of colour.
- Add some frozen fruit pieces or add lemon slices to perk up your beverage. I love raspberries floating in my water!
- .I am not beyond adding a decorative slice of fruit or a little paper umbrella like you see on fancy cocktails. Why not?
- If your local water has a taste you don't like, consider getting a filtering system like a Brita or one the many others out there. Bottled water has its place, but please be aware of our environment when making purchases..
Friday, June 12, 2020
My Cute Rock Garden
- 3 pots
- 3 rocks that can fit in each pot snugly
- 3 shades of green acrylic paint
- white acrylic paint
- average size paintbrush
- fine tip paintbrush
- filler for the bottom. I used white play clay from a dollar store.
- sand or small stones or aquarium gravel
- Googly eyes
- craft glue
- mod podge (optional)
Cute as can be Curly |
Meet Moe |
Lovely Larry |
The Whole Gang. |
Sunday, June 7, 2020
Word Web Art During Challenging Times
Sometimes just a grounding-type of task or activity can be a big help. I purposefully put on a playlist of old songs from my teenage years when I cleaned the bathroom yesterday (NOT a favourite task), and I kept moving until I was done the job. My daughter walks her dog. She feels better when walking or running, and right now, she wants Jasper's company, so the two of them are walking a lot on familiar routes. I have a friend who is knitting up a storm. The repetitive action, along with keeping her hands busy, is something that helps keep her grounded. I like to do art projects and sometimes make music, and I can get into a zone where I lose track of time and forget about all that other stuff going on out there.
What if distractions are not enough for you right now?
I have had times when the sense of "OVERWHELMED" has been so all-encompassing that it becomes a blur that felt like it was swallowing me, It can reach a point where you lose awareness about what truly is causing the fear and anxiety. One suggestion I have when facing those more extreme responses is to label that fear, that problem, that emotion.
Do you remember doing "word webs" as a writing/ organizing/problem-solving technique when you were in school? It is very similar to brainstorming ideas with a group. You start off with a topic. It could be just one word or a concept, and you write it in the center of your page. From that, you go around the word filling in l whatever randomly comes to mind by word association. Often you can break the word into categories and then those categories into further topics.
I want to suggest a small art project that can be part of supporting your needs. Art skills are not required and materials are flexible and already in your home.
My example above is about the word HOME. It was originally going to be about social isolation but my main feeling once I started working on it was gratitude that we had a nice place to be safe and I was with people who I love and care about and who love me back.
Word Web Art
Get a piece of paper, or cardboard, or back of a cereal box, really anything easy to write on. It can be canvas or even a wooden board. It can be coloured if you wish. Make it a size that will be comfortable for you to work on. I really need to work on a table and don't want to physically stress myself, so I am not going to pick working a piece of poster board on the floor, but you could if you wanted to.
Gather your choice of writing implements. Maybe some pens or pencils, markers, crayons, paintbrushes and paints.
Make a border shape on your paper using a pencil. Perhaps trace a bowl to make a circle. You can just draw a rough box shape or an elephant outline. grin.
Somewhere in your shape, you will write a word or phrase that strikes you as important at that moment. It can be a happy thought, sad thought, or strong emotion. Try and make that word quite big and eye-catching. It could be a bright or bold colour, block shape drawing, thicker lines, but make sure it is the dominant thing that will catch your eye. Try not to overthink your choice of word. It is whatever came to your mind. You can always repeat the project with a different word latter.
What other word does the word you wrote make you think about? Fill it in around your original word but make it a little smaller or less eye-catching. Keep going. You can look at more words that your first word suggests to you or find new words coming to mind from the other words you are adding.
Just keep filling in your shape. If your mind starts to wander, just refocus your eyes back on one of your words. You can arrange the words in rows, or they can be upside down, random locations and sizes. There is NO wrong way of doing this. It is expressing what you are feeling, thinking and remembering, and it will always be right for you at that moment.
Lastly, you can add little embellishments or doodles. If you wish, you can erase your pencil lines or choose to go over it and make it stand out.
➤You might find that it is cathartic and that making your feelings and thoughts concrete might release anxiety or worry.
➤It might give you a sense of priorities you need to focus on.
➤You might find that it brings you a sense of clarity about your values and who you are as a person.
➤There is the possibility that your words will create a call to action in you and it might be the beginning of a plan you will want to embrace.
Thursday, June 4, 2020
Take Good Care of Yourselves
People need to take better care of themselves. The question is, how do we do that?
Wednesday, May 20, 2020
We Love our Lake Cottage Life
Our immediate family, despite some ups and downs, has done pretty well with being quarantined.
We think that this cottage where we have spent so much time over the years is so isolated that we are kind of used to keeping ourselves occupied and we can be quite self-sufficient. I also think we have learned to spread out and give each other some physical space when needed. The cottage truly is a sanctuary where you can listen to the loons and songbirds, hear waves against the rocks and learn to relax in your own thoughts.
Wednesday, May 13, 2020
Cheerio Squares and Saving the Bees
- Plant a garden for bees. This doesn't mean you have to buy a lot of extra plants but rather consider purchasing plants that support bees and other pollinators. I know one secret. Those are often the most attractive and fragrant flowers, which will make your garden or window box look beautiful.
- Go chemical-free. Look into an organic or natural way to take care of your plants.
- Become a Citizen Scientist. Help collect data and information that can be shared to get a fuller picture of our world.
- Provide trees. They provide nectar with the flowers and habitat for them too.
- Provide a bee and butterfly bath. That is basically a shallow dish of water with rocks in it for the insects to have a drink.
- Build homes for native bees. That could be providing undisturbed spaces or little bee homes filled with small tubes to be homes for certain types of bees.
- Give bees homes. You can learn about having your own hive or supporting other community organizations in beekeeping or preserving natural spaces for insect life.
- Inspire the next generation. We can help teach children how to be good stewards of our world in the future.
- Host fundraisers to support organizations that bring awareness
- Support local beekeepers and organization. Try buying local honey and wax products. I love getting local honey at my favourite farmers market, and it is always a welcome gift for friends.
- 3/4 cup Peanut Butter
- 1/2 cup Honey
- 3 cups Cheerios
- 1/3 cup chocolate chips (Optional)
- line an 8 x 8 baking pan with parchment and parchment paper or foil
- place the peanut butter and honey in a large pot on the stove or in a larger microwave save bowl.
- heat while frequently stirring until they are melted and thoroughly combined
- remove from heat and then stir in the cheerios and, if desired, the chocolate chips.
- pour into your parchment or foil-lined pan.
- chill in the fridge for an hour or longer
- cut into squares using a sharp knife.